Wednesday, May 28, 2008

For Good



This sealed the deal, let me explain... I just spent the weekend with my friend Happi. People do that all the time, I know but this was special. Happi and I haven't seen each other in almost 20 years and all we really know about our lives since high school has been contained in a few letters and what we've posted on blogs. We've talked about getting together for some time but never sealed the deal. Life just kept getting in the way. It almost didn't happen this time, you see days before I was to meet up with Happi I had to go to Iowa for a funeral. I was exhausted from all the family drama and may have cancelled had it not been for the "Wicked" tickets. It was set in stone. I am so thankful. First of all, I was not nervous at all about seeing her after so long. I was perplexed by this. I am a nervous person. From the moment we saw each other it was like old times.
We talked for hours, about everything. We laughed, we cried. We ate. It was a perfect weekend. I was able to see her mom and sisters, who I consider family, and meet the wonderful man that has made their family complete. Thank you Dean and Donni for opening your home to me, I felt like one of the family. Lots of laughs. I was also privileged enough to see Kari and Darci perform at church, it was beautiful. More tears. Happi and I took the train into Chicago (first for me), walked down Michigan avenue (first) and had lunch at the Lux. YUMMMMMMMM!!!!! We then hailed a cab to see the show. Oh my gosh!!! I can not think of anyone I would have rather shared that moment with. She is the person that started my love affair with performing arts. Watching her family perform, taking dance classes at her mom's studio... My friendship with Happi changed my life in so many ways. She was the light at the end of the tunnel through a lot of hard times. I truly think God put her in my life. I am so thankful. I am thankful that if we've changed (I am sure we have), we changed in the same direction. I am thankful that I can be myself, completely, without judgement and Happi accepts that. I missed that part of myself and my friend helped me find it. I love you my dear friend. Thank you so much for a wonderful weekend. Now, I'm gonna go read your post (I promised myself I wouldn't read it till I got done with this), probably cry, then look forward to planning next year!

4 comments:

Happi said...

Awww, I'm smiling and laughing at the fact that you wrote yours before you read mine, and that we said basically the exact same thing!!!! Coincidence? I think not!

It was a BLAST and I'm so refreshed after such a great weekend. Can't wait until next year. Is it REALLY a whole year away???

Love and hugs,
Hap

Happi said...

I did send you an email back. did you get it? I hope so!

Happi

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Kari said...

I'm so glad you and my sis had a nice weekend. My best friend from high school visits Chicago every other year in December with a group of family and friends and I've been blessed to be able to join her on her past two trips back. This is our year, so I only have to wait about 6 1/2 more months for a girls-only weekend. FYI, next time you and Happi do this, you MUST do High Tea at the Drake Hotel. It's awesome!!!!!!